*I've learned to let go. I don't think of myself as a tightly wound individual, but certain things have made me so. I first noticed it when I was pregnant with Claire. The thought of sharing her with the world made me both sad and angry, and I had no idea why. I carried that into the first few months of her life where I literally never put her down.
Sometimes we all need a good reminder. I'd add, however, that you can't plan life. Sometimes things just happen and you go with the flow. That's not to say that Sunday night dinner can't be planned, it's to say that, just because you sign your kid up for soccer, doesn't mean they'll like it or become the next Beckham. And that's OK. It's life. It doesn't come with rules.